This week I have had some amazing news. My brother James has agreed to make a speech at the wedding.For anyone who knows my younger sibling, this is a really big deal. Public speaking would be on the list of the top ten things James most hates doing.
And I can't say I blame him, it wouldn't be something I would be leaping around in excitement over either. But it definitely doesn't bother me as much as it does him, which is why it means the world to me that he has said yes.
I should point out; he has had a change of heart. A couple of years ago, when Chris and I were first considering getting married - we have come close a couple of times; in 2006 we even made it as far as the National Wedding Fair! - I told James he would have to step up and walk me down the aisle.
Before I said another word, he turned to me and said that of course he would give me away but that I shouldn't expect him to do the 'father of the bride' speech because "that will never happen."
Who knows what changed his mind? I am not sure, but he can't go back now - I have witnesses!
It will be one of the proudest moments of my life when James does stand up and say something, even if it is just a few words. And, as he pointed out, he has just under a year to write a speech and practice it, by which time he might even get used to the idea and - dare I say it - enjoy his moment in the spotlight!
As a little extra, I just want to say congratulations to one of my best friends Cheryse and her lovely boyfriend Joe who got engaged this week - here's to the happy couple!
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My husband was just like James. He hated standing up in front of a crowd and making a speech. A few years ago he joined a local Speakers Club. Now he has no fear at all when he stands up. There are clubs all around the UK and they are full of very supportive people who are happy to pass on their expertise. People join these clubs for lots of different reasons, many joining because of forthcoming weddings! They have a national website www.the-asc.org.uk where he will find a local club. Tell him to give them a call and I'm sure that he will stand up at your wedding and might even enjoy the day, instead of dreading it. My husband was best man at his best friend's wedding last year and his speech was brilliant.
That is awesome news!!! I am so happy for you! I'm sure James will be fine! He must be oh so proud of his big sister, and wants to show everyone just how proud he is! It'll make the day even more special for both you and Chris, and also James!
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