I am having a dilemma when it comes to my hen night. Last month I was pretty certain I knew what I wanted, but one magazine article later, and I am struggling with my decision. I have never been to New York before - correction, I have never been to America - so a girly weekend in the Big Apple sounded perfect - think Sex And The City chic.
And then I read a real 'spanner in the works' article; two women arguing the cases for and against what are considered 'extravagant' hen and stag do's. Apparently mine falls into that category.
After nodding along to the pro's, I was struck by feelings of guilt half way through the con's article. The writer was asking why brides expect their friends to spend big sums on a hen night when they already have to pay up for things like wedding presents - though we don't want any - and accommodation.
Am I being incredibly selfish? While there are plenty of good deals around, a New York event would definitely cost more than, say a night out in Southampton...
But then I really don't want a hen night that could in effect be just another Saturday night out minus the obligatory L plates, bunny ears and veil. For the record none of these novelty items will be coming anywhere near me.
With a little help I think I have come up with a solution - a spa weekend. That way the girls can choose to just pay for their accommodation or add on treatments depending on their pay packets.
Anyway, as I continue to overanalyse every single decision - I know I am doing it but I can't seem to stop! - Chris informs me the plans for his stag do will soon be underway. His choice? A lads' weekend in Vegas...yes, it really is so much easier being a boy!
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Hey Gem,
Can you make sure Chris does his stag do in Vegas in late Jan/ February! It'll coincide nicely with my trip!:-)
Cheers,
Gilly xx