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me-and-lisa-b.jpgWhere would we be without our friends?

Just as I was starting to get the overwhelming feeling I was drowning in wedding tasks, my best pal Lisa instinctively came to the rescue.

As far as I'm concerned everyone needs a friend like her. We are two peas in a pod, but for the all-important difference that she is super organised. When she says we are doing something, it really is going to happen and usually pretty quickly.

I wish I was like that - Chris and I are 'talkers', the 'why do something today you can put off until tomorrow' types. So Lisa's visit last weekend was exactly what we needed.

Come Sunday night, we had our final (colour co-ordinated) guest list finished - we started at 120 people and culled down to 76.

Plus we had drawn up, and decorated, a very pretty countdown chart assigning tasks to each month, and found time to discuss and research the hen night.

Think that's impressive? In those two days we also fitted in a shopping spree and celebrated her birthday.

According to my new organiser chart - one A4 page per month complete with clip art - our next rendezvous will be at Bickleigh next month for the tastings.

I am thinking of that visit as a well-deserved reward for our recent invitation ordeal. But in the mean time there is plenty to do, and certainly no time to shirk responsibilities... Lisa has a copy of the chart too and left promising to check up on my progress.

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blog.jpgWhere has this year gone? Already November is here and the incessant Christmas chatter has begun - for those people already bragging about starting or indeed finishing their shopping, its not impressive... frankly it's just depressing.

I am not some sort of festive Scrooge. After all what's not to love about presents, food, family, guilt-free chocolate for breakfast and seasonal slurps of alcohol?

No, my need to put December off for as long as possible is because I can feel time slipping away - not, I should point out, in some morbid way. Purely in terms of planning.

You see Christmas was a great midway point when it came to setting deadlines.

Choosing and sending the invitations? We can concentrate on that after Christmas. Bridesmaids and their dresses? That can wait until the New Year. Groom's outfit? We'll think about that in January.

So I have in actual fact set myself up for a horrendously busy and super-productive start to 2010.

I know it will be fine - we still have eight months and counting until the wedding. But I wouldn't be me if there wasn't an air of worry and panic when it comes to something this important.

I think for my own sanity I shall set myself one little(ish) task to accomplish come Christmas - say choosing the invites.

And thankfully there is great news on that front already. As I speak, handmade samples are winging their way to me courtesy of the very creative and talented Sabrina - a real star who is now totally invaluable to me.

So you see, things are looking up already!
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